Emotional effects of bedwetting

You walk into your child's room in the middle of the night and he's there, pulling the wet sheets off the bed. With tears in his eyes, he looks at you and asks Why do I always wet the bed? What's wrong with me? It's never easy for a parent to see their child in pain, and seeing them embarrassed and confused about their bedwetting is no exception. How to approach the subject of bedwetting with your child? Here are some tips to help you: 1. Tell them they're not alone: 5 to 7 million children in the United States wet the bed. It's likely that some of their classmates wet the bed, too . Many parents view bedwetting as a taboo subject that's only discussed at home. Talk openly about it, and your child will know they're not alone. 2. Share your experiences: According to Dr. William Sears, three out of four children who wet the bed have at least one parent who wet the bed as a child. If you or your spouse (or a family member) wet the bed as a child, share this information with your child. They will understand that it is hereditary and that you know how they feel because you have experienced the same thing. 3. Tell them it's not their fault: Children who wet the bed often think they're to blame and wonder what they're doing wrong. Make sure your child understands it's not their fault. Don't express disappointment or frustration when they wet the bed. Instead, act like it's no big deal. This way, they'll see it the same way: it's no big deal. 4. Ban teasing: Siblings of a child who wets the bed should not tease them about it. Be open about bedwetting and explain to your children that everyone is different and that their brother or sister cannot control their bladder. Encourage them to be supportive and empathetic. 5. Help him understand: He's not wetting the bed because he's cowardly or has a mental disorder. Explain to him that bedwetting is usually caused by an immature bladder and that time is the only cure. A child who wets the bed is usually sleeping very soundly and is unaware of the signal that his bladder is full. 6. Ensure your child's comfort: Encourage your child to use the bathroom before bed, limit the amount of liquid they drink in the evening, and use absorbent underwear. This will help your child get a good night's sleep and wake up happy and in a dry bed.