It's expected that toddlers will wet the bed as they grow. However, a large number of children still wet the bed after a certain age, and I suspect your child falls into this category. School-aged children often feel isolated and have low self-esteem because of their bedwetting. They are embarrassed by the situation, and parents talk about it much less with each other as children get older. However, it's also perfectly normal to seek advice and explore solutions. Help and advice are available everywhere. There are parenting books, friends, family, and your parents, all of whom will have experiences to share. Here are some tips to consider: Your child is the priority - Encouraging your child is the most helpful thing you can do, as in most cases, bedwetting will stop over time. Help them understand that it's not their fault. As your child gets older, they may become more uncomfortable with bedwetting. It's important to provide love and comfort at all times. Respect their privacy - When your child is very young, it's normal to talk about toilet training or bedwetting with friends and family. However, it's very important to show your 11-year-old that they can count on your discretion. Avoid talking to the parents of their friends or classmates. Even if your child is very close with their siblings, serious discussions about bedwetting should not involve them. Older children and teenagers may prefer to talk about it in private. Find information on the internet - (but don't believe everything you read). When your child is older, it's less likely that your friends have had this experience with their children. It also becomes more difficult socially for your child, who may feel isolated. The internet is vast, and many parents deal with bedwetting, so it's a great way to meet people who are facing the same situation. The internet offers the benefit of anonymity, but bedwetting is nothing to be ashamed of. Of course, I offer this advice with a caveat. It's no secret that the credibility of information found on the internet can vary greatly. Make sure you use information from reliable sources, such as doctors or experts. Child Involvement - It is important to involve your child in any decision regarding bedwetting. If you decide to wake them up during the night, explain how this course of action can help. Ask them if they would be willing to try a new method or product. When the child is older, I have found it is more helpful and empowering for them to seek information and come up with solutions themselves. Let them choose a type of nighttime protection such as absorbent underwear or the new bed pads. Have them visit the website so that he can find ideas himself.
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